Parenting is a process not just a responsibility
   Date :30-Sep-2024

Parenting is a
 
 
By Sarmistha Ganguli :
 
Parenting is often considered the greatest blessing, but do parents truly understand the process? Many struggle to establish a meaningful bond with their children, neglecting essential elements like understanding, conversation, and balance. Merely showing love, care, affection, and investing monetarily in a child’s education is insufficient. This fixed mindset restricts children’s willingness, forces decisions, and kills their desire to make choices. Consequently, children lack exposure, struggle to nurture their interests, and may succumb to pressure, leading to poor outcomes and rising suicide rates among teenagers. To convert a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, one must embark on a journey of openness, positivity, and gratefulness. Nurturing with a development outlook emphasises effort, learning from mistakes, and embracing challenges.
 
A growth mindset recognizes that success is not solely determined by natural ability, but by the effort put into achieving it. By commending effort over natural ability, parents can help children understand that achievement is within their control. Viewing failures as learning opportunities also encourages children to analyze mistakes and grow from them. This approach fosters resilience and perseverance, essential qualities for overcoming obstacles. Moreover, nurturing with a development mindset involves fostering an affection for learning and exploration. Parents can demonstrate enthusiasm for growth and exploration by engaging in activities that spark their child’s interest. Providing constructive feedback that focuses on progress, rather than criticism, also supports this approach. By adopting a growth mindset, parents empower children to develop a love for learning, cultivate self-motivation, and reach their full potential. Ultimately, parenting requires more than just love and care; it demands understanding, conversation, and balance. By embracing a growth mindset, parents can foster a positive, supportive environment that allows children to flourish. This establishes a strong foundation for children to become adaptable, self-motivated learners, equipped to thrive in an ever-changing world. n